mature mind set??

am i really mature for my mind set?

for family,

i counted as a girl that always being independent since i was young~~

i always know how to take care on myself and my family well~~

they didn't worried anything about me at all~~

they believed on what choices that i had choose and won't comment too much on it~~

in their eyes, i always can make a decision that really didn't get hurt to others~~

for friends,

sometimes i do think like that because i feel like others are so childish~~

or maybe they are just have different mind set from mine but i can't accept it??

childish is not to criticize them, but maybe they are not generous on it~~

i do think why people can't just have a personality of being generous~~

maybe is not for everything, but at least don't ever counted for tiny things lar~~

for relationship,

is being an experience to learn how to have a mature mind set within it~~

is not easy to be matured~~

i have to be calm all the times and don't think things that i simply guess ~~

i have to act like i m very generous for him, so that he can do his things well~~

actually is not to act, is a way of learning style for being calm in a relationship~~

nothing can be quarrel~~

nothing can be counted~~

everything is just fair for each other~~

no doubt is given to anyone~~

either you appreciate it well, or you let go~~

the person who have the mature mind set will always get a logical mind~~

things that given to you, if nothing go worst, then you can continue do it~~

if, it hurts you everytime, then i think is time to let go~~

p/s : each relationship give me an experience from it, learn from it and don't make it happened again~~and all these make me have a mature mind set...at least i think so~~smile =)